LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL

I have a best friend. She always tells me everything which happens with her. One day, she told me something bad. This case made her really frustrated until she could not think anything. She just cried when told me about her case. Her boyfriend had another girl as his girlfriend. Life is not always filled by beautiful things, sometimes bad things will greet us to make us stronger than before.

We were at downtown that Saturday night. She called me and told me to meet her at 6 p.m there. I wondered why she wanted to meet me. I arrived at downtown about 5.50 p.m and I saw her sitting on the bench. She ordered me to buy two soft drinks. I bought two soft drinks for us. I asked her why she suddenly wanted to meet me. She took a deep breathe and exhale it slowly, then she began to tell me the case. Her boyfriend was changing. He did not communicate with her as much as he did before. When she called him, he picked the phone up but did not talk too much. He did not reply her message as quick as he did before. She was curious. She wondered why her boyfriend was suddenly changing. Was he busy with his task? Or did he avoid her? She did not know why and she decided to visit his boyfriend. She did not told her boyfriend that she would visit him. When she arrived in her boyfriend’s lodging house, she waited for hours until he came back from his activities. Her boyfriend looked very shock when he saw her. He could not speak anything. He let her came in to his lodging house. When he went to take a bath, his cellphone was ringing. She picked it up and then listen to someone who spoke through the cellphone. A girl was speaking there, and the girl called her “honey”, the girl thought that was her boyfriend. She said “hello” to the girl, and the connection was canceled. From that, she looked at her boyfriend message. She found out something bad. Her boyfriend had another girlfriend. He was dishonest. She was angry. She cried when she saw her boyfriend and went back to her house without saying anything to her boyfriend.

After told me that story she asked me what she should do to face this case. Her eyes was turn red and tears fell from her eyes. I embraced her, and tried to make her calm. I told her that was good for her to know about what her boyfriend had done to her early. I told her that she just needed to be strong to ask her boyfriend whether he wanted to choose her or that other girl. She bowed her head.

“ You are too good to be hurt by someone like him, and your tears to be pity to fall just because of a boy like him. He would never find any girls who love him like you. He would choose you” I said to her, to make her calm and she stop to cry. I could not believe myself saying some sentences like that. I was happy if those sentences could make her stop to cry.

A couple of days she send me a message that she broke up with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend chose the other girl than her. I knew she cried over there. In her messages she said that the three of them met in a place then talking about their relationship. She asked her boyfriend whether he wanted to be with her or that girl. He asked the other girl whether she still wanted to accept him or not. The other girl just bowed her head. My best friend cried and she wanted to hit her boyfriend and the other girl but she did not do it. I felt like that was my fault. I told her to asked her boyfriend and then the result was like this. I asked her the reason why her boyfriend was dishonest to her. She said that because of her boyfriend felt lonely. They could not met often because the place where her boyfriend studied was far from where my best friend continued her study.

She thanked me because I told her to asked her boyfriend. Her life would never end here just because of a boy. She realized that sometimes a good thing can change in to a bad thing. We will not feel just those good things but also those bad things. From her experience I learn that life is not just filled by beautiful things but bad things will always walk together which we should face it and find how can we face those beautiful and bad things in life.